Lady Reveals what her Online boyfriend Did After telling him She hadn’t Eaten in days.

A Nigerian woman revealed online what a man who was her online boyfriend did after continually telling him she hadn’t eaten in days.

According to the lady who went to the popular forum, Nairaland, After the man told her that he couldn’t help her out of her situation, he stopped talking to her, but he did not know that she was actually fasting at that moment.

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Read her full post below:

This trait seems to be common in some men from Nairaland (with apologies to all the men here) as I have never really experienced such an attitude in men I have met offline. So I don’t know if they have a Nairaland men’s association (not the red columns or something else) where they agree to do similar things. The way they argue sometimes just confuses me.

OK. So I met someone here as a friend and I wanted it to stay that way. Down the line he wanted more than friendship, but I just kept dodging it because I don’t want any problems as he’s a good friend (born again) and I like our friendly chats and all that. So I didn’t want anything serious that could jeopardize this, but he kept pushing and stressing until I naturally felt relaxed (against my wish). They know how this constant scrutiny of someone makes you want to compromise their posture. So I got caught somehow.

Here is the problem. He would always want to know about my business and my job. Whether I went or not. So I decided to give it a try. He always called and asked if I had eaten. So that day I said no (fasted) but didn’t want to tell him I was fasting. He called later that day and asked again, I said I haven’t eaten, he dropped. I felt like he thought I wanted him to feed me now, right? I noticed that he was reducing his calls. On the third day he called and asked again, I said no. And he said “na wa o” i was like why, he said i’m sorry i can’t help. Huh ?? I don’t remember asking him so I decided to play along. He called in the evening, I still said I hadn’t eaten (because I hadn’t broken my fast then) and he said I’m sorry (I just laughed inside). I asked him what for? he said because he couldn’t help it. And since then he has stopped calling, only to chat after a week and ask if the deal I was pursuing was over. I ignored him and had no contact for two months.

Just last night he approached me again and asked if I had resumed work and I said yes. he then asked if he was free to call me blah blah. And since last night he’s been trying to keep chatting but I’m a little cold and he asked why I’m so cold. It acted like nothing happened.

This is what i feel So if someone really dies of starvation (god forbid) are you going to leave the guy? or that they can’t date someone whose business is shaky or who has not returned to work due to a global crisis that has affected everyone? I am not saying that someone should carry someone else’s burden (there really wasn’t a burden anywhere as God was faithful), but I don’t understand what actually happened there and why he is suddenly interested again after learning that I did resume work. I don’t just understand because I don’t want to be rude. Was that right?

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I’m really confused here because … I mean … I never asked you to help me with anything, but just being there would have been enough. Calling and chatting would have helped me overcome the line I felt this time of obligatory break from work and business, but it was forgotten even if I never made any demands on it.

I bow to men and the way they argue.